COVID just keeps on ruining things for me

I thought about burying the lede here, keeping the awful news behind other bad news, but then I thought I would never do that if I were getting paid to write this blog, So here is the awful news: Both Kathy and I have COVID, and we have canceled our 15-day trip rafting on the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon.

The trip started like all trips do: Why do these bad things happen now. And here comes the other bad news. We got to the U-Haul place to pick up the van we used to move Kathy’s grandson and girlfriend to California now that they have completed Seattle University. They said we have your reservation but you have to go to West Seattle to pick up the van. Since the West Seattle bridge cracked, West Seattle is in a place far, far away. The GPS route looks like red spaghetti with touches of gold and yellow. But we arrived, got the van and reversed the spaghetti route back for the first load of furniture.

We also discovered that the canopy latch on my truck was no longer latching. Why do these things happen on the first day of a trip.

Then came the call from the security system that the alarm had gone off at our house. That happens when you leave the front door wide open. Our son is staying at the house and corrected our hurried exit fallacies. We do this a thousand times and why did it have to happen now?

Kathy offered to buy us Dick’s hamburgers and left order them. We drove to Dick’s, and found Kathy complaining that the automatic truck key would no longer open the truck. Why do these things happen now? I dug out the old-fashioned metal key ensconced in the modern key, climbed into the unlocked canopy to dig out the extra key I had packed just in case a bunch of stuff might happen now. I can get the bad key fixed in Petaluma at a Ram dealership I have used before.

Off to Portland, loaded the second set of furniture and headed for Eugene. We went somewhere to eat, I ordered too much food but did not collapse into it. I ended up in the truck snoozing until others got done eating and drinking. Long drive in a big, unfamiliar van, but should that make me that tired?

Woke up Tuesday with a river pouring out of my head. Sneezing, dripping. Where did that all come from? A cold, I thought, let’s push on.

On to our regular lunch stop on our way to Sebastopol, CA — The Olive Pit in Corning, CA. You can tell the muffuletta sandwiches were good by the olive oil that dripped all over my cell phone camera lens. On to Forestville, CA, and the delivery of the furniture.

Great dinner by Grandpa and Grandma, and this may have been where I infected five people with COVID. Tried to get some social distance, but we were inside and I was still under some delusion that this was a cold, and nothing more.

A cold until I took a COVID test that night and the T strip came on, blinking and in enlarged red type saying, “What were you thinking?”

This is Day Four since I started symptoms. All five of us are in different rooms in three houses trying to isolate ourselves. Joe, who had COVID before, is delivering food and medicine to our doors. My meds are not Paxlovid, which reacts with Warfarin — doesn’t everything? I will not be getting a new key for the truck any time soon.

Canyon Explorations offered us three options: 1. Get to Flagstaff with no COVID symptoms and a negative COVID test on Aug. 15. That will not happen now. 2. Hike in on the Bright Angel trail with all your equipment and enjoy the rest of the trip down the river. A chance to infect another 16 people. Hiking now when I can barely walk to the bathroom six feet away does not sound like something we could do 10 days from now. 3. Reschedule.

We chose option 3. We are on the waiting list for 2023 and on board for 2024.

This has been a huge disappointment. I learned of this trip in 2010 while working for the Census Bureau. Raft down the Colorado through the Grand Canyon with a string quartet aboard to play each night. We got on the waiting list for 2018. Nothing available. Same in 2019. Yes, for 2020, which is when COVID first happened. Same with 2021. But on for 2022, if COVID did not happen now, which it did.

12 thoughts on “COVID just keeps on ruining things for me

  1. ❤️❤️❤️ OMG 😱!!!!!
    This is THE MOST intriguing story I have EVER read!!!! ❤️ Love you both & Joe & fiancée!!!

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  2. So sorry to hear this John. Sounds like you have been hit hard. Did not realize symptoms could be so severe. Was so looking forward to sharing your adventure. Take care.

  3. Dang!!! You two had a great trip planned. So sorry you got hit and hit hard by COVID. The only good news is that you had the muffalata at The Olive Pit in Corning. We were there in March. Camped out back overnight and spent a bundle as always! Wishing you a short and full recovery!


  4. Your awful experience(s) are teaching me the gravity of this virus, the need to nurture the will to be careful still. Thank you for writing about a sensitive experience like this. I am hopeful of a better ending.

    1. I see the CDC has relaxed COVID guidelines, leaving more of it up to individuals not schools, employers, etc. All I can say is “wear your mask.” Kathy and I both double vaccinated, double boostered. Supposedly, that lessens how bad the disease will be. Maybe. But you’d have a hard time convincing me of that now.

  5. What you describe is similar to my recent experiences with life – EAFU (Everything is All Fucked Up). It would take too long to go into detail but the challenge we have is that we’re getting old, our brains don’t function as well as they used to, memory sucks, and, with age, we are entering unfamiliar territory. Or, as the Alzheimer’s patient says, “Everyday is a new day.” Only thing to do is to enjoy the adventure into the unknown. After all, in another 20-30 years, we’ll all be dead.

    1. I’m trying to enjoy the adventure into the unknown, but right now surrounded by COVID medications with a cough and sore throat, it’s more difficult than it was before COVID struck.

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